Today, it seems like everybody’s OK with sharing with the rest of the world everything that’s going on in their lives. You’ll see that often enough the moment you log on to your favorite social networking site. All day long you can see your friends sharing photos of the exotic vacations they took, the awesome nightlife they have, and that dreamy lovelife that always seems to have evaded you for the longest time. Envious? Don’t be.
It may not be that obvious for some, and you may think that this is just a lame attempt at trying to make you feel better, but there are huge advantages to being single. And if you think that having a partner to share your heart and soul with is the best thing that can happen to you, better think again. Here are five reasons why being single can after all be the best thing that can happen to you.
Who says boys get all the fun when they’re single. Now that you are, you can give your number to all the really hot guys without worrying someone will be hurt, or is waiting back home for you. Now you can be flirty and pretty and get free drinks and dance the night away without any form of guilt. There’s a reason why some men love staying single. Now you can finally get to experience it from their point of view. Live a little. Try not to keep on looking for Mr. Right. He’ll find you soon enough.
What You Buy Is Yours
Now you can finally buy that expensive watch you’ve always wanted, or that slinky LBD you’ve been drooling for for so long. No more thinking of ridiculously cute gifts on Valentine’s day, or your eighth, fifteenth, or thirty fourth month anniversary. No more torturing yourself what to give him on his birthday, or for Christmas. What you earn is yours, therefore the decision to buy (AND save!) is yours. You can go shopping with your friends or for your family all you want. And each purchase is bound to become sweeter.
No More Hiding!
When you’re single, there’s no more reason to hide anything from your partner—because you don’t have one. There’s no more passwords to give, no more inboxes they “need” to go through, and certainly no more purchases/gifts/receipts you need to hide just so no one gets suspicious. Ugh!
A lot of women have lied about this bit, unless you consider yourself an expert and can will yourself to do it the moment your partner does (or whenever you want to). But when you’re single, you can finally indulge in giving pleasure to yourself with our without a partner in bed. And if that isn’t exciting enough, we don’t know what is.
When you’re single, you can play the field as much as you want—as long as you keep yourself in check. So don’t go falling in love with the first guy you hook up with! It’s a great feeling, that rare kind of feeling. No more fear of getting dumped—or having to deliver the news that they are being dumped.
So if you want to add some color to your life in hues you’ve never seen before, stay single. Who cares what old folks say about you needing to set time aside to look for your one true love? Let them find you for a change!